Friday, October 5, 2007

The Sadness of Sickness

By Pastor Troy

Today is Alexa’s birthday and we had all sorts of fun planned. . . . However . . . our plan didn’t work out the way we had intended. We originally thought Alexa could pick two friends to go bowling.

Yes, bowling.

What wrong with that? I think it’s a great idea…plus we had received a coupon in the mail to play up to ten games for free. :) Now you know why I have become so excited about bowling—the same reason I get excited about anything for free.

We were going to pick up the kiddos from school and head to the bowling alley . . . that is . . . until I got a phone call this morning from Leigh-Ann.

"Hello?"

"Hey, it’s me. Sophie’s puking."

"What? What did she eat this morning?"

"Crackers."

Not Good. The only good thing at this point is that I took the right road for the rest of the conversation . . . only a few years ago, I would have said something to the affect of, “She’ll be ok - maybe we can just take her for a little while.”

After years of parenting experience under my belt, I said, “When do you need me home, and what should I pick up at the store?” [Men, take note, this type of response will buy you at least two hours of football per week.]

So after looking all over the grocery store for saltine crackers and Sierra Mist, I made it to the check-out, just in time to have someone cut right in front of me with her cart and then walk away to find a few more items. Frustration level is rising . . . she returns just in time to pay for her food . . . with a check. I know this may sound crazy, but every time someone in front of me in line pulls out the check book I blow out an extra sigh of frustration. It takes forever to write checks . . . hello, how about the debit card?

After getting into the car, I call Leigh-Ann assuring her I will be home in 5 minutes . . . that is until I find myself behind a contemporary of Abraham Lincoln, attempting to make a left turn. This could take weeks. Finally, after traffic has cleared out for at least 2 miles (maybe not quite that far), the car begins to inch forward. By now I can’t wait for the on-ramp to I-70 . . . let me take a little aggression out on the gas pedal (without speeding of course).

I finally get home and Sophie is laying on the couch in a pathetic mess . . . she is nearly asleep with an incredibly sad look on her face. For the next two hours, I was able to work on my message in between trips to the bathroom.

This is the part of the story that makes me proud . . . even more proud than watching her roll a strike at the bowling alley. . . she never missed the bucket. She was 6 for 6. If having a virus (this is not the flu contrary to common opinion) were a sport, she would be a professional. Even more incredible, she didn’t even complain. This made it even sadder to watch her every time she had an “episode.” I felt so bad for her, because I knew that she was being so good even though she hurt so much.

It was natural for me to have pity because I love her so much and I know how bad she feels. This Sunday, we will take a close look at the woman caught in adultery from John 8:1-11. True to character, Jesus astounded the religious leaders of His day with His response to their test. In the end He was able to restore an individual and leave a clear message of compassion to all who witnessed the event. There are many applications that will give us strength and courage to be “Agents of Restoration.” I hope you will be able to spend some time reviewing the passage and praying that God will teach you much through the message.

I hope you have a great day….I’m heading to the store for the second time today, so let’s hope you’re not in front of me.